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When you watched The Secret or Study the Law of Attraction was there something left out?
When you watched The Secret or Study the Law of Attraction was there something left out?
Watch this YouTube video to see what you didn’t get on The Secret…
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New Millennial Leadership with Jim Fortin the NeuroPersuasion Expert
New Millennial Leadership with Jim Fortin the NeuroPersuasion Expert
This is an interview with Jim Fortin a speaker and NeuroPersuassion specialist in the DFW area. I think you will enjoy and get a great deal of information from Jim. Listen and enjoy.
Patrick: And welcome to The New Millennium Leadership radio show. I am so excited about this show because what I’m going to be doing is interviewing leaders throughout America that are really out to change this generation.
I’m Patrick Dougher and I have a passion to raise up new millennial leaders in this generation that will stop living in the followership and begin to walk into the leadership of this generation.
I’m so thankful for my guest today. His name is Jim Fortin. Jim and I have known each other for a couple of years now. He’s one of the guys that when he came on the scene, for me in my life, I was blown away because here’s a guy who’s a neuro persuasion expert. He is a speaker and author.
He’s worked with some of the very brightest minds in the country and is one of the brightest minds in the country, in my opinion. I’ve had him other events that I’ve put together with Ron White, and Howard Berg and some of these other great guys; memory leader and the fastest reader in the world.
And I’m always amazed at what he brings to the table because Jim has a unique understanding of how to get past our logical brain and right into our emotional brain. Now, where would that be useful? Well, any kind of persuasion.
For a lot of us, we don’t realize that as we move forward, we need to get better at selling, but not in the way that is the historical view of mechanical selling. We need to use an almost ninja-style selling technique that is interactive, is relation-based, is coming straight from the heart, but is reaching into the heart of somebody else to help them make the best decisions that they could make for their life – not abusive, but a real usefulness of being a servant to lead other people into greater success in their life.
I know that’s the origin of the world salesman. I stick with it; that the origin of the word salesman is servant and we’re always out to serve each other. Jim, thanks for being on the show. I really appreciate you being here.
Jim: Hey Patrick, it’s a pleasure to be here today.
Patrick: You know, Jim, I’m always curious about your story. How did you get started in this? Tell me your story.
Jim: Okay, I would love to. And before we do that, I want to pack up here a second. The introduction – great introduction and I appreciate it. You talk about a new way to sell and a new way to get into the mind of the prospect and the client.
This was announced about three weeks ago. Did you know that Campbell Soup is changing their label for the first time in decades? Have you heard about this yet?
Patrick: Not yet, no. Go ahead.
Jim: Campbell did what’s called neural research in that they had a focus group – a large focus group – and they hooked them up to breathing monitors. They measured their pupil dilation when they were looking at soup can labels.
And what they discovered through massive amounts of very scientific research is that their old soup can label that they’ve had for many, many years – it was designed almost 100 years ago. The soup can label that they currently have is not affecting people emotionally and unconsciously enough to get them to buy to the degree that they want them to buy.
So, this year – actually, you can Google it and find it online – they are changing their soup can label. They’re actually taking the spoon out of the bowl, they’re updating the bowl, they’re moving the red – which actually sits behind the world ‘Campbells’ – they’re moving the red from the top of the can to the bottom of the can, which has been there for 100 years, and they’re putting steam over the bowl.
And what they know is, by doing this, they’re going to begin affecting their consumers in a significantly deeper way. As a matter of fact, the Vice President, I believe, of marketing at Campbell’s said, “We’re making these changes because we want to affect our consumers at a deeper level.” So, what he’s saying is they want to affect buyers at an unconscious level and unconsciously prompt them to buy.
Really interesting because Google is looking into this now, and Frito-Lay, and Microsoft and other companies are looking into it to discover ways that they can more pervasively unconsciously – not analytically left brain mind – but unconsciously affect their customers and their prospects to buy more.
So, I thought that was an interesting story that I didn’t know if you had heard it or not and I wanted to share that with you.
Patrick: No. It just goes to show you see this stuff and most of the rest of us just are affected by it.
Jim: Yeah, absolutely – and not even knowing. About my story, you asked. I’m a clinical hypnotherapist and I haven’t done hypnosis in years, meaning the individual hypnosis sessions. And back in 1998, when I lived in New York City, I had a guy come into my office for smoking cessation.
And were a couple of streets from Wall Street and I constantly saw smokers. That was my biggest clientele was smokers. They’re traders, or brokers, or worked at Wall Street firms.
And a guy came in. He stopped smoking, and he called me a few days later and said, “Jim, I stopped smoking.” He was a high net worth account manager at Goldman Sachs. And he says, “I’m in sales. What did you do to me? How did you just talk to me and get me to stop smoking?”
And I said, “Well, there’s different things that we use as a hypnotist and, mainly, it’s taking you in a trance and then using what we call conversational hypnosis which are language patterns, meaning I talk to you in a particular way and I lay unconscious suggestions for behavioral change.”
And he said, “Well, Jim, is it possible that you could teach me some of this stuff so that I could use it with my clients so that I could influence them to be more responsive, to act quicker, to be more respectful and to get them to do things that would help me facilitate the sales process?” And I said, “Well, Rob, absolutely.”
And really, Rob, when he said that, a light bulb went off in my head and I started thinking what if I could take all the tools that a hypnotist uses, all the things that a hypnotist uses to get people to be compliant, all the things that a hypnotist uses to drop suggestions, all the things that a hypnotist uses to get people to change their behavior – what if I could take these things, map them over into just everyday words keeping the integrity of the hypnotic language pattern, all the things that a hypnotist would use, all the tools, but mapping them over into mainstream use?
And that’s what I did many years ago and I started getting amazing results. When I would teach people how to use the skills, they would start using them in just everyday business interactions and they were saying, “Jim, I’m getting my clients to say yes a whole lot quicker or even to say no a whole lot quicker. I’m getting compliance. I’m getting people to follow me. I’m getting people to call me back.”
So, that’s basically my story in a nutshell is that I was a hypnotist and I took all these patterns that are used in clinical hypnotherapy and just mapped them over into the everyday world and applied them to the business situation.
Patrick: Now, with doing this, you’ve been able to speak in front of groups all over the country. What were some of the things that you’ve been sharing along the way?
Jim: Two or three things in particular relative to the program. First is – and research demonstrates this just like the Campbell’s label that I was just talking about – is that people first make their decisions unconsciously before they ever make the decision analytically.
Now, analytical is left brain. Analytical is what everyone’s been taught to sell; features and benefits. And I’ve heard many people in IT say, “We have a very technical sale with a lot of steps and a lot of information and it’s an information based sale.” Well, that may be true and that’s all left brain, yet that almost be processed unconsciously first. So, that’s one of the things.
Secondly, research demonstrates that we don’t know why we make decisions. Literally, as human beings, we do not know why we make decisions which means we do not know why we buy. We think we do, yet we don’t.
It’s because the left brain has to analyze and the right side of the brain, which is the seed of the unconscious, is actually the side of the brain that buys.
Doing hypnosis, taking it back to a very human thing, when I did weight loss sessions many years ago, women would say, “I overeat and I eat a lot because I’m bored, or I’m lonely, or I’m depressed,” or whatever it is. Well, that’s not true. They eat because they eat, because all people get bored, or lonely, or depressed, or whatever and they don’t eat.
So, what happens is people do things and then they have to analyze and rationalize their behavior. So, what makes my program different is this. Almost everyone goes out in the world and sells features and benefits and if they don’t sell features and benefits, they’re selling reasons.
And they’re talking to the left side of the brain, which is the linear side of the brain, which is 5% of mental function which does not the side of the brain that buys. So, basically, they’re selling to the wrong side of the brain and then wondering why they can’t sell more.
Go back to the Campbell Soup label. They knew that soup label, they now know that the old one appealed to the wrong side of the brain. They want to appeal to the right side of the brain which we now know is the side of the brain that makes all buying decisions.
Patrick: Wow. Well, I’ve always been taught. I used to teach sales training and stuff like that. And you always teach people buy emotionally, and then they rationalize their decision which is what it sounds like you’re saying.
One of the things I know about your program is that you really walk people through the rest of the story because there are so many things that go into that emotional or subconscious decision. It’s everything from the way you shake your hand all the way up. I know it might sound like basic sales training, but that’s not.
What you do is you create – well, you create a story from what I can understand. And then you create a way of reaching out. So, I’m really curious as to what really are you doing to create the success you’re having, Jim?
Jim: Okay. What I’m doing is I’ve taken three disciplines; neurolinguistics which is NLP, social science which has been done for 30 years, University of Research which has looked into what drives people to buy, what drives human behavior, then unconscious language patterns.
[11:36 inaudible] were created back in the 50s by Milton Erickson. And the thing is even though a person may know hypnosis or have hypnotic training, they don’t know how to take the pattern and apply it into business application.
So, what I’ve done – and you talk about taking people through steps – have taken all three of these disciplines, these modalities, I’ve combined them in different ways.
For example, people who study just social science; they never talk about neurolinguistics. People who talk about NLP; I’ve never really seen anybody take and merge that into the social sciences. And then people, for example, who do hypnosis probably also never look over at the social sciences and behavioral research to understand what six things unconsciously derive from the behavior.
So, I’ve taken these three disciplines and I’ve crafted them and created patterns and paradigms people can use so they can better understand step-by-step how to move people to action. I’ve taken all three of these disciplines and literally created a formula, meaning when you’re talking to someone, how are they communicating back with you unconsciously? And it’s very simple things.
And I want to say something here. It’s very simple in that is a person auditory, visual, or predominantly kinesthetic? Everybody runs a predominant system; auditory, visual, or kinesthetic.
And I’ll have some people that will say, “Jim, I had training in that years ago. I learned some of that from Tony Robbins – good stuff.” Yet, I watch them and they can’t demonstrate it. They talk about it, yet they can’t demonstrate it.
So, I’ve taken all this apart, broken it down step-by-step and then, in my training, I pull people into it and then walk them through every bit of it showing them how to use it any situation in life with any that persuade or any that influence someone to do something. And that’s what I hear more than anything else is that I’ve made it very easy for people to understand and use.
Patrick: Well, what kind of results have you been seeing, Jim, from others that have taken a class? I can vouch for you. I’ve taken a class. Years ago, I was a certified presenter with Zig Ziglar’s organization. I worked with Zig for about a year. It was amazing; great [13:50 inaudible], greatest salesman in the world.
And I know that Zig naturally does a lot of what you’re talking about just from his presence, the way that he operates in life. He really touches people.
But, when I saw what you were doing, I saw how I could open more doors than I ever thought possible just by using some of the tools you teach. I have not mastered your technique, but I sure use it a lot more than I ever thought possible and it has opened doors for me in massive ways. But, what have you heard from others?
Jim: First things first. Any time we do anything on the Internet these days, the FTC has changed the ruling the last couple of years about making claims, and testimonials, and this and that. First off, all of the testimonials on my website are all unpaid.
What I can say is this. I do not know what somebody will do with what I share with them. Some people could take it and never use it. Some people take it right away and they just go like gangbusters with it. So, I don’t know what a person will do with the material, yet I do know what the material will do for them when they use it.
Now, that being said, I’ve had people call me and say – I had somebody last week. He owns a landscaping company. I tried people from all different industries; national, national IT experts, and SEO and SEM experts, salespeople from large corporations and IBMers. So, I’ve got the entire gamut of selling professionals.
I had a guy last week call me and say, “I had eight appointments yesterday.” This was after the full-day training. He goes, “I had eight appointments booked. Of those eight, I closed seven. That’s my all-time one day closing ratio.”
I had another guy – he’s actually one of the testimonials that I’m using. His name is Brian Johnston. Brian said, “Your techniques are making me at least an additional $30,000 per quarter because it’s helping me move people through the sales process a whole lot quicker and getting them on board or getting them off board a whole lot quicker so they stop wasting my time.”
Now, I hear this a lot. I can’t tell you. I have pages and pages and stacks of people that have said, “I closed a $50,000 sale that I was about to lose because I wasn’t sure what to say. I went back to the office, I went through the training manual, I found a technique to use, I used it and the person went from we’re not sure to okay,” or, “I closed a $4,000 deal,” or, “I made $10,000,” or, “I cut down my selling cycle by 50%.”
These are things that are on my website. I’m hearing these things all the time. So, we’re getting significant results out there with people who apply the information. That’s for sure.
Patrick: Well, I know that’s a real key. Implementation is everything.
Jim: Sure.
Patrick: I know that when you’re talking about all these different people from the IT, to the IBMer, to basically almost the direct salesperson out there, who really is your ideal client?
Jim: That’s an interesting question. In business, you always want to know your target market. You’ve got to know who you’re selling to. You’ve got to know who you’re trying to reach.
The interesting thing about me is I’ve got a predominance in that I’m looking at the psyche of people that are sitting in my classrooms. First off, an intangible, my target market is people that are good at what they do and they want to be really good at what they do.
People that are already closing business may say, “I bet there are ways that I can become even a better closer,” because I teach people to close like, what I call, a velvet hammer; meaning you’re going to close that sale and a person doesn’t even know that it’s being closed.
If you want real demographics, I attract the 30 to 55-year-old age category, people that have had some sales training. My students will say, “Jim, I’ve been to Miller Heiman, Bosworth, Chandlers, spin selling, consultative selling, Brian Tracy, Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins and every other sales training program under the sun. Yours is different.”
Well, yes. Mine is different. All those programs are about why people buy. My program is about how people buy unconsciously. When you know how they buy, you can then influence why they buy.
I attract a very heavy dose of IT. In particular SEO, search engine optimization and search engine marketing, and I attract a large dose of people that want to learn how to write better sales letters, better web copy, and online conversion.
The thing is, Pat, they come from all industries; everything from a flooring company to Wall Street. I’ve seen it all.
Patrick: I believe. Until you had said something about copy; ad copy or anything like that, that was something that I was real curious about is how well it converts into, literally, ad copy to letters.
But, what’s real funny is where I use it most is I use it on Facebook and some of these others just out there creating a story.
Jim: Absolutely. You’ve got it right – creating a story and that the unconscious mind thinks in stories. I teach people how to create, move people to positive stories, negative stories, associative stories, disassociative stories online.
One of my students owns a goal setting software. He said, “I do Google pay-per-click and I just used some of the persuasion words in your program,” which were the actual persuasion words that I told people to put into their web copy and their sales letters. And he goes, “My click-through rate went from 1.3% to 2.9% overnight.” Basically, what he told me was he’s doubled his click-through rate and I hear that all the time – all the time.
I hear that a lot and I’ve got people in my class that do SEO/SEM. They take all the information out and the first thing they think is and they ask me to help them, “How can I apply this to online conversion?”
The biggest thing is that by Google Analytics, in Google Algorithms, websites when it comes to webpage ranking, people create web pages to be read by the bots; by the robots, by machines. And the websites go to the top of Google, but they don’t convert because people make them for machine consumption so they’ll go to the top of Google, yet it’s the human that’s not being persuaded because the website is not written in the right format to persuade the human to ahead and buy on the website.
So, even in that industry, there’s a multitrillion dollar disconnect between what a machine can read and the way the unconscious mind reads and many students will take the information right away and start applying it to online marketing.
Patrick: Right. Well, one of the things that I’ve seen is that there are some tools. You can use tools to get a certain page ranking, and then you can actually go back in and start to add new content that is completely in the genre and the way that you’re talking. So, it’s a little bit of a progression. It’s get seen, then get heard.
Jim: Sure.
Patrick: Rather than a lot of people that started in Internet marketing, they want instant Internet copy. They want it right now, done. It starts cranking out $100 bills per hour. It just doesn’t happen. You grow a tree; it takes some time.
Jim: Absolutely. I agree.
Patrick: Well, Jim, one of the things I want to make sure is that people know how to connect with you. So, what would you like people to do?
Jim: Go to my website, MindAuthority.com. I’ve got an e-book on there The 10 Biggest Persuasion Mistakes that Most Selling Professionals Make which literally covers ten foundational things that I see every day.
Now, I know there’s a listing here on the call. I said that I track really smart people. The first thing that a lot of people do is think, “I’m doing okay. I’m doing good with sales. I don’t need anything else.” Well, that is actually backwards thinking.
The number one thing that keeps people in any industry at any level from creating more sales is information, education, and application. Actually, that’s three things – information, education, and application.
Go to the website. Download the e-book, The 10 Biggest Persuasion Mistakes that Most People Make. There’s also Closing Lines there. Actually, I’m going to give away NeuroPersuasion, which is brain persuasion, Closing Lines – lines that people can use right away out in their sales situations to start closing more business.
And then they can look at the blog. There’s videos on there. I’m going to put about a dozen more up in the next three to four weeks. Watch the videos where I take apart part of the e-book and I show people, actually visually talk about and auditorily show people how to become significantly more influential and more persuasive in their everyday activities and in their selling situations.
Patrick: That’s really good. Now, I know when you go to MindAuthority.com, you’re going to see his upcoming events and I know this is done in 2010, but I expect this recording will be on the Internet for some time.
Jim: Certainly.
Patrick: So, go to MindAuthority. Check Jim’s upcoming events. You do half-day, full-day seminars?
Jim: Full-day. We’ve got seminars here in Dallas. I enjoy not traveling as much as I used to. So, right now, I’m doing them only in Dallas. Yet, the demand is – I’m getting calls from all over the country.
So, what I’m going to do probably in the next three or four months is every quarter, I’m going to do maybe one in Atlanta, one in New York, one in Chicago, and one in San Francisco or something. For now, they’re only in Dallas.
Patrick: That’s great. Well, I know that while you’re here, anybody in the DFW area should connect right away. If you’re within 1,000 miles of Jim, you should go to his class because it will probably put more than you can imagine back in your pocket in sales and growth in your business just because if you understand the way that people buy, then you’ll affect them in every area. You will persuade them to do the right thing by them in every area.
And that’s what we really want. I really want to bring people into training that will affect the rest of their lives, that will place them as a leader and authority in their field and in their profession so that they can [24:32 inaudible] in a way that is massive. So, Jim, I really want to say thank you. I appreciate you being on the call today.
Jim: Thank you, Pat. I really appreciate you inviting me on the call today. I know that people, when they go to the website, they’re going to get great information and they’ll really start thinking – and I hear this all the time – they’ll really start thinking about selling in a whole new way and will start getting much better results in their selling activities. So, again, I appreciate you letting me reach out and help your listeners.
Patrick: Thank you so much, Jim. Again, go to MindAuthority.com, download Jim’s book. Do the right thing for yourself and for your family to begin to change this generation. I know that if you do, you’ll be blessed, you’ll be changed and I guarantee you’re going to see massive results in your life. Again, go to MindAuthority.com.
This is Pat Dougher, New Millennium Leadership. I’m so thankful for you being here. We’ll talk to you all next time.
Jim: Thank you.
Kevin Wilke of NitroMarketing with his Local Business Money Machine continues to Have High Impact
Kevin Wilke of NitroMarketing with his Local Business Money Machine continues to Have High Impact
Watch this interview I did with Kevin Wilke recently.
I have seen in my own life the effects of the Local Business Money Machine. It added several thousand Dollars to my income over the past year. It is also a great way to keep up with Technology on the internet and with internet marketing. I would hope that you will give Nitro a chance to teach you some powerful tools for either earning an income offering Internet marketing to local business owners or to use these ideas in your own business.
Ceramic Performance Works at Increasing Power and Lowering Emissions
Ceramic Performance Works at Increasing Power and Lowering Emissions in a massive way. Watch this video to learn ways this engine treatment is changing the highways to the Nascar raceways.
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Patrick Dougher at Business Blitz (ComplimentsInternational.com)
This was a training I did at a Friday meeting for Business Blitz for Compliments International. I highly recommend you joining this Meetup and learning some of the insider secrets for Internet Marketing.
Patrick Dougher Shares his opinion of David Schirmer’s Law of Abundance Seminar
Patrick Dougher Shares his opinion of David Schirmer’s Law of Abundance Seminar.
This was a great workshop that changed my life. If you get the chance to attend… Just Do It!
Register HERE for workshops and information.
David Schirmer on Learning From Leaders Hosted by Patrick Dougher
David Schirmer on Learning From Leaders Hosted by Patrick Dougher talking about the Law of Abundance. David is speaking for Free at 254 E. Arapaho Rd. in Richardson from 9am – 5pm this Saturday March 27th.
Learn More about David’s Free Workshop here.
Patrick: Welcome to Learning from Leaders. This is your host Patrick Dougher. I have a great show for you today. I’ve brought a good friend of mine and a mentor that I’ve known for the last several years, on the show because, well, I wanted to share him with you. I wanted to show you a person that I’ve found to be not just a great mentor and teacher, but someone who actually has had a great deal of international renown with a movie that he was in a few years ago called The Secret.
Then, we met a few months later at a mastermind meeting, a meeting in Baltimore, and I was really stunned at how wise this guy is and what he brought to the table. We became fast friends and we’ve kept up with each other through Facebook and some other things because David Schirmer lives in Australia. He’s a good friend of mine and I’m so thankful that you’re doing the show. Welcome to the show, David.
David: Well, thank you. Glad to be here.
Patrick: Well, David, I know a lot of people want to know your story. You were with The Secret, but there’s so much more to you. So, tell me more.
David: I guess our story goes right back to – we lived in Far North Queensland. I grew up on a cattle station and then got married and was on the family farm for a number of years. But, I started to really question about the whole success philosophy, then started the manufacturing business and that went really good for a short time. Then, like sometimes in business, the wheels fall off.
All of a sudden we found ourselves massively in debt. We couldn’t pay our rent. We were about to be evicted from our home. We hadn’t paid the registration on our vehicle and were driving around in an unregistered vehicle. I was on unemployment benefits and without a job. So, we all of a sudden found ourselves in the situation that then perpetuated. It got worse, and worse, and worse.
That really puzzled me, because I’d seen people that I didn’t think were smart as what I was in school, and so on. And yet, here I was massively in debt and not knowing how to actually create an income to feed our family.
I exposed where the journey started, it really started for us. So, I started asking the question, “How come? How come some people create success and others wander through life and barely make it to death and never really achieve much at all?”
So, really, from that, I started to study. The first book I think I read was Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. That challenged me in a lot of areas. But, I remember going to a seminar and I was challenged by a statement that was given by George Bernard Shaw. The statement was, “It is a sin to be poor.”
Patrick: Wow.
David: That one statement really challenged me because I thought, well, I was brought up as a Christian and I was sort of taught it’s okay, it’s even sometimes right to just to be broke. So, I started to really question that whole concept about prosperity and abundance. That was the start of the journey.
So, as I did that, I had a thirst to learn more. I was also studying the stock market. I still didn’t have a constant income. And really, it was an evolvement of me, I guess. It was a process. But, we went from massively in debt, unemployed, couldn’t speak in public, we had four children at the time and in a very short time, we made over a million dollars in a year. And that was the primary reason why I was invited to be on The Secret was my story.
Patrick: So, something must have changed pretty radically for you to go from, in a sense, broke and unemployed – your words, to a million dollars in a year. What was the transition there?
David: I had read books and gone to seminars where it said, “All you have to do is write down your goals, your affirmations, and read them over and over again every day and your life will change.” I did that for about four years and nothing happened. Things got worse. So, I learned that that wasn’t actually the key to success.
I remember listening to a cassette tape by someone and something must have dropped. The penny must have dropped. All of a sudden, I realized what I was focusing on and what I wasn’t focusing on and the critical thing was – the missing piece of the jigsaw puzzle, if you like – is how the mind works is why we actually have the results in our life that we have.
I’ve shared with people now for years on how the mind works, and the subconscious and results and so on. And I’ve had people even recently – I ran a seminar in New York and a person said, “I’ve been studying the mind for years and I thought how the mind worked until I actually listened to you and learned.”
For me, it was a real experience. It wasn’t from reading books or attending seminars. It was a real life experience where I was challenged. I was overwhelmed with bills coming in the mail, so much so I would just put them in the bin, and then I got the realization that my entire day was consumed by focusing on all the money I didn’t have and the bills in the mail.
That’s where that part in The Secret comes from, “I get more checks than bills,” because I realized, at that point, I had to focus on prosperity and abundance, regardless of my situation, no matter how terrible it was and how little power I thought I had to change it. I had to focus on abundance and prosperity. I had to focus on the check coming in the mail not the poverty that I was in because I learned, in that time, that by focusing on all the bills I had and being overwhelmed with that, all I was doing is creating the situation worse.
Patrick: Ow. So, once that began to change, what were some of the activities that you began to do to really restructure?
David: I always say to people, I would check how much money I didn’t have every day. So, I would go down to the ATM, before the Internet was available, and I would check how much money I didn’t have. Most people spend so much time thinking about money because they haven’t got it. And I say to people, “Imagine how much free time you’d have if you didn’t have to think about money.”
Well, one of the activities I did is the very next day, the postman came because I would dread when the postman would come, because they would just deliver more bills and I knew what it said in them. So, the next day the postman came, I actually got hold of the bills, opened them up for the first time in a long time, and I got a big, red texter and I wrote “paid in full” on the bill and I stuck it on the refrigerator. Got another one, wrote “paid in full” and I stuck it up on the wall, wrote “paid in full”, stuck it up in the bedroom – everywhere. We wallpapered our house with bills with “paid in full”.
Now, the truth is they weren’t paid. The creditors probably would have rather them to be paid, but I knew – I didn’t understand how the subconscious mind works as much as I do now, but I knew that something was happening and I was reprogramming the subconscious mind. I also got a bank statement and I wrote on the bottom of the bank statement exactly how much I wanted it to be.
Patrick: That’s good. One of the things that I want to do is make sure you that you come back for part two of Learning from Leaders. This is your host Patrick Dougher. We’ll be right back.
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Patrick: Welcome back to Learning from Leaders. This is the second part. I’m Patrick Dougher. My guest today is David Schirmer. You might recognize his name from a little movie that came out a couple of years ago called The Secret. He was the Australian that got checks in the mail and car parts, if you can remember that story.
Well, when I met David and developed an awesome friendship with him, it had been probably eight months after The Secret came out. I saw David, we had dinner and I said, “David, I get it. I get The Secret. I understand. But, what’s the next level, because I’m not seeing what I want in my life.” And he goes, “Well, what do you want?” in a very Australian accent that I can’t impersonate.
I told him a number. And he goes, “Why so little?” I’m like, “Huh? I’m sorry, you totally caught me off guard.” And he goes, “Really, what if I told you that it would take the same amount of energy to go from where you’re at to where you dream to be as where you want to be? Would you be interested?”
Well, if a person as successful as David Schirmer asks that of you, I hope you’d say, “Show me the money,” which is what I did and I handed him the typical napkin because we were at dinner and he gave me this amazing answer. I’m thankful he’s my guest today. David, thank you for being on the show.
David: Thank you.
Patrick: I want to know more. I want to know. You said you started changing the way that you thought. You started changing your focus and started marking “paid in full” – papered your house with it. I think a lot of us can relate to being over debt and under employed, maybe, at some point in our life. What was the next step?
David: Well, part of the process was I realized that we can never outperform our self-image, the image we hold of ourselves. It doesn’t matter who you are, we all have a self image and really it’s another name for the programming in our subconscious mind. Now, most of us don’t understand what the programming is. We don’t understand how much it controls our outcome.
Literally, every decision we make, every day, about relationships, about money, about health, about everything in our life, we make those automatically based on the programming in our subconscious mind. Much of that programming – we actually received that in the first nine to twelve years of our life. So, we’re making decisions based on what we learned way back then.
Patrick: So, it’s like driving down the highway looking at the mirror?
David: Well, yeah, but it’s also not even knowing what we’re basing the decision on. But, we’re just making it automatically. It’s probably more like driving to work every day. You go the same way. You don’t know why you go that way, you just think it’s the quickest until, maybe one day, you discover there’s a shorter way or you want to go somewhere else and you end up at work.
It’s just a habit of what we doing, of what we do. So, every decision is actually habitual. For example, the way people look at money, the way they make a decision when they buy something, the way they choose their career, their house, their car, their partner; everything else. Much of that is habitual. So, if that’s the cause of it, then why don’t we address the cause?
So, I started to look at that and thought, “Well, okay, I’m habitually acting with money. I’m repelling it.” And most people do. Most people are actually not attracting wealth and prosperity, they’re repelling it. When we talk more about the lower vibration zone, we get to understand how that happens.
But, for the purpose of today, it’s literally that the only way we can change our circumstances or our results in our life is we have to change the cause of them. And the cause of them is not the things around us. The cause of them is not other people doing stuff to us or events and so on. The cause of it is actually the way we think.
More importantly, the cause of it is the programming or the images we hold in our subconscious mind. If a person holds an image of $40,000 a year, they cannot exceed that no matter how hard they try. They could get to $45,000 maybe, but they can’t get to $400,000. Now, that means if we want to change our results dramatically, we have to change the programming in our subconscious mind.
Now, I didn’t understand that, but one of the exercises I did is I created a future budget, which means I created a budget of how I wanted to live; hat sort of car I want to drive, not what I had. What sort of houses did I want to live in? What sort of traveling did I want to do? Now, that did a couple of things. One is I came out with a figure that just totally blew me away because, up until this point, I was living on less than $5,000 a year. That was my income. And I was trying to support a family and all with that. My wife earned some income as well, but we were on the poverty line.
So, that was my paradigm or my subconscious belief of what I thought I was worth. So, I did this budget and it came out at something like $43,600 per month,.
Patrick: Sweet!
David: I just about fell off my chair when I added it up. But, the thing is, something happened while I was doing that. See, to get to that figure, I had to go out and find out how much the house cost. I had to go out and find out what sort of car I wanted; how much that cost. I had to go out and find out all sorts of things about how I wanted to live my life, not how I was living my life because most of us are living life just looking at our present results and keeping on doing it.
So, I started to look at how I wanted to live it and that was where the change started to happen. If a person can get specific about the things they want in their life, they can change their life. But, most people don’t ever actually really decide what they want in their life. Now, I just experienced so much pain that I decided I was going to change. That’s what I did.
Now, as I said to you very early on in our friendship, I said that the subconscious mind has no concept of time or quantity. Paul said, in the Bible, that we have to renew our mind to get ourselves away from the worldly way of thinking. So, that’s what it was talking about; renewing the mind or the subconscious mind. Proverbs says, “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”
So, we will only be what we think in our heart. Now, back then they referred to the heart as the subconscious mind.
Patrick: Oh, I didn’t know that.
David: Yeah, it is, because when you look at the Bible, the Bible breaks up – we are a spiritual being with an intellect with a physical body. Well, we have a soul and the soul is a mind, will, and emotion. Well, the emotion part of us is the heart, which is the subconscious mind – just another name for it. So, we have to change the cause. We have to change the image in our subconscious mind. That’s the part most people don’t understand nor do they understand how to change it.
Patrick: Wow. Well, I hope that you guys are really getting a lot out of this because in today’s show, David is literally showing you how to rewire what’s upstairs. It’s to break through the negative tapes and the things that are keeping you back from being where you want to be. So often, people look at their lives and they think, “I’m just not worthy of that.”
And I really would encourage you to give yourself a chance. Believe in yourself because what we’re talking about here is rewiring what’s here, rewiring what’s in our heart and really opening yourself up to the belief that you can do whatever you want to do, that you can become what you’re supposed to become, what’s a God-given right for you to be everything you’re supposed to be. With that, we’ll be right back.
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Patrick: Welcome back to Learning from Leaders. I’m your host Patrick Dougher. My guest today is David Schirmer. He’s the Australian from The Secret. You guys remember that a few years ago. He got checks in the mail and car parts. I’ve seen that happen too. But, I’m so thankful for him being on the show today.
And one of the things we’ve been talking about is how to rewire your mind, how to tap into your subconscious and begin to program it to expect the right stuff. One of the things that I’m a real big believer in is that a lot of us, a lot of people, just don’t believe that they’re worthy of success or great success. They just wear this unworthiness cloth like that’s what they were meant to do.
And I would just challenge you. In fact, David, let me tell a quick story. Here’s the thing, folks, if you were to go back to the Garden of Eden and you were to see yourself from the view point of the angels and God walked up to this mud pie and He breathed into the mud pie and all of a sudden it started to change shape ,and form and the Spirit filled it and it was amazing. And you’re watching and you’re thinking, “Wow! He’s going to create a man! Whatever that is.” Right?
Then, you see him get done and He sits back and He goes, “Check that out!” And you look down and you gasp because He’s cloned Himself. The Creator created a creator. He literally made something that was just like Him.
Fast forward to today. I believe the angels still walk among us. They see us… You know what they do? They see His glory in you and they bow in reverence of His glory in you.
We sit there and go, “Oh, this glory of God thing? Hey, I only put this on when I don’t care what I look like.” And we just discredit, dismiss, and dismantle our authority. My challenge is that you would literally wake up tomorrow and say, “God, help me to co-create something magnificent in my life, and in my family’s, and in this nation.”
I challenge you to that this time because I want you to begin to free yourself to believe that you can be anything. David, thanks for being on the show. Thanks for enduring my story too.
David: Thank you.
Patrick: I want to get in to kind of the next step. Once people have begun to see themselves the right way, what do they do next?
David: I break down success or creation if you like – like you said, we are co-creators. How do we co-create? And I think it’s a very simple five step process. Most people are trying to make life complicated. One of my fortes is the stock market and I say to people, “Stop trying to make it so complicated. It’s not complicated. It’s very simple.”
And it’s the same with success. The first thing we’ve got to do is we’ve got to have a vision. Most people do not have clarity of vision. Now, there’s no sense in going on to step two, three, four, or five without a very clear vision. And I mean a very clear vision. People often limit their vision. It’s like when you said to me how much you wanted and I said, “Why so small?”
It’s because I understand that our subconscious mind, connected with the universe, connected with God is so powerful that we have scarcely tapped into it yet. God said, “Let there be light,” and light filled the entire Earth and the universe. And it’s still continuing to this day. Scientists even say that the universe is expanding at the speed of light today.
So, every second there’s a planet being created or a star being created that’s larger than the size of the sun. And from when he said, “Let there be light,” many thousands of years ago. So, that’s amazing.
And we have the same co-creative ability. The first thing is get a vision. It’s not to say, “Boy, it’s dark down there. That’s a dark place,” and complain about it and talk about what you don’t want it to be, but just let there be light.
If you want abundance and prosperity, what is it? How much do you want? And speak it out. That’s the first thing is to actually get a vision. We talk about the purpose of the imagination in our seminars and so on. That’s the first step. The next step is actually to decide to have a purpose or purpose to do, which means to cut off all other possibilities.
Then, you’ve got to believe, then you’ve got to act. A lot of people watched The Secret and they – I get emails from people saying, “I’ve watched The Secret 50 times and nothing has happened.” Well, that’s because you’re sitting at the kitchen table humming and contemplating your navel expecting the money to drop out the ceiling. You’ve actually got to act. You’ve got to do something.
The Bible says, “Faith without works is dead.” You’ve got to actually do something then, of course, gratitude. And again, the Bible says, “Praise. Praise God for everything. Rejoice in today because today is the day the Lord has made.” Even in our challenges, we have to rejoice because it’s through the rejoicing we actually see the opportunity.
So, it’s very easy to actually create success. But, most people do not understand that process. And I guess that’s the key is knowing what the process is and how to actually go through that process to, first of all, create change in the subconscious mind. Many people are trying to apply willpower to change their life and willpower will never give a lasting result.
There’s a vast difference between the will and willpower. That means the purpose of the will is to focus on how we want our life regardless of our circumstances. Jesus said, “When you pray, pray believing that it is already yours and it will be.” And there’s so much power in that. It’s not that we have to look at, “I want this,” or “I want that.” No. We have to actually pretend or believe that it already is ours and if we already believe it is ours, it will be. And that’s the power of it.
Patrick: I know that Paul Cho talks about being pregnant with the vision; that it’s actually in the Spirit and in order to bring it into reality, there’s a nurturing that has to happen. Well, I know that you actually have even some things, free downloads that somebody could get?
David: My three most favorite books in the whole world – first of all is the Bible; everything’s in there, there’s every bit of personal development in there. The next is the Think and Grow Rich book by Napoleon Hill. And the third is The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles. Now, I have actually run, many times, a seminar created on that book, The Science of Getting Rich.
I recorded it and have made that available – the whole two day seminar – made it available free online and people can just go to www.signpoststofreedom.com and they can just sign up and the download. They get a 20 minute clip or so about every two or three days, so they can work through over a 40 day odd period and go through that whole seminar. But actually, you get really into some of that information I was talking about.
Patrick: Very good. Well, I would encourage you guys to go to www.signpoststofreedom.com and really connect to David. I have been so blessed to have his friendship for the last several years now. I’ve been really thankful that when we get together, we always exchange what’s going on. We will connect via Skype, we’ll connect at Facebook and I would encourage you to connect to his fan page on Facebook.
The idea is that he’s got so much to give. He has so much wisdom and he was, in a sense, blessed enough to get on something that was just a conglomeration of a bunch of different people sharing their ideas. But, that gave him the opportunity to be in 20 or 30 million households to share a truth that could change their life, to introduce himself and what he’s saying that could open the doors for you to become everything you want to be.
And right now, I know that a large portion of the world and even in America that, man, people are in pain. So, I would encourage you to connect to David. What is that again?
David: www.signpoststofreedom.com
Patrick: Very good. It’s on the screen. It’s been a great show. I’m so thankful for David and our friendship and I really encourage you to connect to him because he has the wisdom that can really carry you through to the next level.
I really just encourage you to come back to this YouTube channel or other channels that it’s on out there on the Internet, and get to know some of the other things that we’re doing at www.patrickdougher.com because we’ve got a lot to help you get where you want to go. Thanks so much. This is Pat Dougher. This has been Learning from Leaders.
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I just received the following email from my friend David Schirmer … who is one of the Teachers on The Secret DVD.
My life has been touched and changed dramatically because of a chance meeting with David at a mastermind in 2005. He is coming here to Dallas and I thought of you.
Hi Patrick
I’ve just done something really, REALLY crazy!!!
About 4 months ago a friend of mine in the US told me to come over a run some seminars on abundance and prosperity with the Law of Attraction … she said I should do it for free because of the state of the economy and the mindset of the people … and to be different from all the other money ‘gurus’!
I said, “NO WAY … I’ll come but it won’t be a free seminar!” I have never done it before and I wasn’t about to start!
I have been fighting against it ever since … I even put up the website with the price and shopping cart and all … some people have even booked in paying full price. But it kept going through my head day after day!! On Sunday at church, the visiting pastor spoke about freely sowing into others!!! I said “OK, OK … I get it!!!”
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I had better get going. Our flight leaves in just 8 hours from Melbourne, Australia for LAX and I haven’t packed yet. I look forward to meeting you shortly
Yours in abundance
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